Searching Our Love

posted by cupid on Aug 29

I was just browsing Google about the topic of love science, and I found this nice page about The Science of Love.

Can’t help to post it here:

When do you know if you fancy someone? What does love do to your brain chemicals, and is falling in love just nature’s way to keep our species alive? We call it love. It feels like love. But the most exhilarating of all human emotions is probably nature’s beautiful way of keeping the human species alive and reproducing. With an irresistible cocktail of chemicals, our brain entices us to fall in love. We believe we’re choosing a partner. But we may merely be the happy victims of nature’s lovely plan. It’s not what you say… Psychologists have shown it takes between 90 seconds and 4 minutes to decide if you fancy someone. Research has shown this has little to do with what is said, rather 55% is through body language 38% is the tone and speed of their voice Only 7% is through what they say

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posted by cupid on Aug 28

Let me start my new version of blog topic by presenting why we, human being, need love.

First of all, let’s take a look at Maslow’s hierarchy of needs:

1. Physiological needs

2. Safety needs

3. Social needs, involves emotionally-based relationships in general, love and intimacy is here.

Humans need to feel a sense of belonging and acceptance, whether it comes from a large social group, such as clubs, office culture, religious groups, professional organizations, sports teams, gangs (”Safety in Read the rest of this entry »

posted by cupid on Aug 28

For sometimes, this blog was about long distance relationships. The blog title was The Long Distance Love Club.

But then, I have decided to write my thoughts about searching the love of our life. Yeah, it will be same topic as the domain name itself.

Hope it’s still enjoyable